Memories....25/10/2011

Has been quite a while since i logged in or should i say, jot down my what nots in here...
Shiema reminded me about it..lazy me or too bz with too much activities trying to catch up the lost time...
Before my memory fail me, best i write about them...

Yes, my children are my world to me now and forever...
They are the rose and the thorn of my life..
I love them so much as every mother loves their children...

I have been blessed with 4 wonderful kids, who loves me as i love them!!!

Recalling back, raising them for the past 22 years was full of joy and heartaches..
3 girls and 1 boy...Diyana, Shiema, Ikhmal and Amira..

Each one with their own childhood stories...

The time when D was always sick with very high fever, with fits and always making me worry whenever she was sick!!!  When i just had Shiema hardly a few months  with D having her fever fits in the passenger seat while I was driving!!!  I had to ask a friendly passerby to hold Shiema becus I had to attend to D at the hospital!!! Thank goodness the guy was very helpful and did not run away with Shiema!!!

I had no option then, as I was alone to handle the situation when D had to be admitted at the hospital...I love both of them, but i just had to make the best of the situation...I am sorry Shiema for that incident, not becus I do not love u...I just panicked!!!

Diyana - My first child, small and  most of the time. Always make me worry at the slightest signs of fever...
I was alone most of the time to take care of you, so my worries are paramount to keeping u  healthy.
A very shy, loving and quiet girl, always so obedient to her parents. With her sweet smile, always smiling and patient even when she was sick.. I am sorry u had to endure the pain from the high fever, tonsils and the hospitals. I am sorry for not being there when u woke up hours after the operation when u had your appendix removed... I knew you were dissappointed in me, guess by that time, your mum was  exhausted..Sorry is all i can say to u, my dear...

Diyana, is forever a very loving daughter ...Since small always so lovable to her parents, grandparents, uncle and aunties...with her sweetest of  smiles.!! BUT, i do remember the time u came back with your siblings, all drenched and dirty!!!  I was very angry with u guys and had me really worried!!!! Kids will be kids!!!!
I admire her patience having to endure when she was sick, still able to smile and be a very loving kid...
Never stop being that person, my daughter for you have a very beautiful heart...
 
Shiema...well, she is one tough daughter of mine.. Always trying to act tough , whereas deep inside is a very soft heart.. Again, I am sorry for not being able to be a good mother to u. I tried to give the best to u guys...
Since small, you are You!!! Your own individual, full of confidence.. Remembered when u came back from kindergarten, you'd get into your corner with your bottle of milk (hehehe...) ,lost to the world around you watching the cartoons in you undies and exercising non stop!!! (stubborn little one, at that!!!) I can see it in your face that time!!!  So determined to exercise at 5 years of age!!!! :))

Yet, despite the tough exterior i have neglected to see how sensitive you were, Shiema...I am again sorry, for not being able to understand u then...I was too bz thinking of raising u guys and working..To be honest, you resemble a bit of me...u hurt but u keep it inside u!!!  Stubborn and tough  on the outside,but hiding  the hurt inside u...

My only son, Ikhmal....  Boys will be boys, huh!!!  Naughty, sweet, loving boy...full of suprises ,always had me filled with worries... From the time u got hurt, u know where/which part...to the time u kicked  a 'ball'...hahaha!!!! The stitches u had to endure at the hospitals!!! You never cease to give me an almost 'heartattack' plus the asthma u suffered those days. My only son, full of memories with the hospitals... :)))

My youngest Amira...very cute when she was small and with her asthma always in and out of the hospital becus of it..Broke her arm when she was 3 just becus she fell from piggy back ride with the brother, Ikhmal!!!  You were the darling of your brother and sisters, with them giving their attention to u...

The 4 of you together, brings back memories and  cherised moments in bringing up my wonderful children...
Yes, your dad did  spend his time with you guys but most of the time, i had to deal with the situations alone as i see fit...

So, if ever either one of my children feel that I am not being fair to them, please do understand that i did it all to the best of my ability, with all the love i have for you...Never ever doubt my love for U...